Shonda channelPosted on 2019 December
Ideally, always make it your highest priority to let the time in real time and in person, be the ultimate measurement for how much you want to engage with them — not the potentially delusional side behind a screen. But I do want you to be careful and meet this man before you start to get emotionally involved with him. Whatever the case, if there is a discrepancy in the level with texting that you are uncomfortable with, have a straight conversation about it. Oftentimes, a cool, nonchalant but interesting message like the one above will do the trick in getting her to message you again. This behavior is about as unacceptable in texting as it is in real life.
There are so many things that can go wrong with bad spelling and bad grammar. Even though you've got at least an hour to craft each response to perfection if you're following rule No. Never you fear, young Casanova. It's just a text or a way to ping someone to stay in touch, not a relationship measuring stick on whether he's into you or not. If he's not a big texter, respect this, and only send texts when it's important or truly the most efficient means of communication.