Maria channelPosted on 2019 October
If we end up grabbing drinks later and a woman insists on paying, I really like that a lot. But before you get upset and start telling me it isn't right and that isn't the way it's supposed to be and such things would never work Worst case is he ends up just being a friend. Her guard then starts to go up and she starts to feel like the date is awkward. Instead of texting a woman or Facebook messaging a woman whom you already hooked, let the suspense build on its own.
Where were you? Start with her likes and dislikes, favourite foods and books, and other obvious ways of showing you are into her. Most people don't hold themselves to a rigorous standard of testing though, because their reputations don't rest on it. And then, go get your advice from someone who's actually out there doing it.